I AM A GOOD MOTHER: Guide to thriving in motherhood
The journey of motherhood, in all its forms, is a profound testament to the strength and resilience of women. As the Setswana proverb says, “Mosadi Thari Ya Sechaba,” a woman is the cradle of the nation.
This powerful sentiment encapsulates the essence of what mothers and guardians tirelessly do: raise, nurture, and guide children. It’s a role that often goes unacknowledged, yet it shapes the very fabric of our society.
“I Am a Good Mother,” a new book, is a celebration of this incredible journey, a reminder that a woman is doing a phenomenal job, and a “war room” for every woman on the motherhood spectrum.
This book is for every woman who has embraced the sacred vow of raising children, whether biological or adopted. It’s for the biological mothers navigating the daily joys and challenges, for the guardians who have stepped up to provide love, shelter, and psychological support, and even for those who are preparing for the beautiful adventure of motherhood.
The unwavering dedication of caregivers, often overlooked, is a cornerstone of thriving communities. History is replete with examples of great leaders nurtured by guardians, a testament to the transformative power of unconditional love and care, regardless of biological ties.
“We must acknowledge and appreciate ourselves and each other, recognizing the immense impact we have. As we learn about our children, we also embark on a journey of self-discovery, evolving and growing alongside them,” said the author, Khumoetsile Magonare-D’Arcy.
“I Am a Good Mother” delves into the multifaceted challenges and triumphs of raising children today. It tackles sensitive topics like co-parenting, raising children from different fathers, and navigating the unique needs of children born with differences.
A particularly vital discussion revolves around “social media parenting.” In an era where information is abundant and often overwhelming, it’s crucial to discern what truly serves families. The book emphasizes the importance of sifting information from the internet, ensuring that what people adopt into their homes, especially concerning their children, is beneficial and aligns with their values.
Beyond the practicalities, the book champions the cultivation of healthy relationships within families. It emphasizes the transformative power of forgiveness and the essential act of self-love.
“As mothers and guardians, we must pour love, safety, and knowledge into ourselves first. Only then can we truly overflow and provide the best for our children. The book also passionately advocates for seeking help. Motherhood was never meant to be a solitary endeavor. We need assistance, and we should be encouraged to build strong relationships with teachers, other parents, and everyone involved in our children’s lives,” she said.
At its heart, “I Am a Good Mother” is a spiritual weapon. It’s a tool for self-discovery, a guide for rebuilding families, and a roadmap for connecting deeply with children. Most profoundly, it underscores the critical role of prayer.
“We can have all the resources and strategies in the world, but without prayer, challenges can easily overwhelm us. Prayer motivates, lifts our spirits, and provides an anchor in turbulent times. We must pray for our children, and perhaps even more powerfully, pray with them, instilling in them the comfort and strength of faith.”
