Lezozo’s two cents on pretty privildge and ethical success in the creative sector
Lezozo Speaks on “pretty privilege and ethical success in the creative industry
Creative industry player, MC, and podcast host, Kedi Molosiwa, recently shared her astute observations on what she terms “pretty privilege” within the creative and entrepreneurial landscape. Her insights offer a valuable guide for navigating the often-complex dynamics of professional relationships, particularly for those who might find their attractiveness exploited.
Molosiwa acknowledges that while “pretty privilege” can initially seem like a “blessing,” opening doors due to others’ attraction, it can quickly become a “curse.” She highlights the insidious expectation that such “help” comes with a hidden cost, the hope of sexual favors.
When these expectations aren’t met, the dynamic sours, leading to unsupportive or even hostile behavior. Molosiwa wisely warns against succumbing to this pressure, emphasizing that giving in only perpetuates a damaging cycle.
Molosiwa’s advice centers on discernment and self-investment. She urges individuals to understand people’s true intentions, establish clear agreements, and stick to agreed-upon terms. Furthermore, she advises knowing when to walk away if a situation isn’t working, encouraging individuals to disengage and seek new opportunities.
More profoundly, Molosiwa stresses the importance of investing in oneself. This means dedicating resources, time, money, and effort, to personal and professional growth. She champions independence, intentionality, intelligence, and hard work as fundamental pillars for success.
Molosiwa firmly believes that talent is an undeniable asset that no one can take away. She encourages creatives to consistently hone their craft by showing up and putting in the work. Her core message is to let your talent speak louder than words, allowing your work to be your primary advocate.
Additionally, she advises networking strategically, reaching out to others, asking questions, and being curious, all while setting aside ego for the sake of your larger goals.
She advises maintaining a documented record of one’s progress. Whether it’s songs, poems, DJ mixes, videos, or pictures, having tangible proof of the work makes it easier to showcase one’s abilities and secure further assistance. This proactive approach ensures that their journey is not only recognized but also supported.
